I’ve been thinking for some time how society’s mores affect the sexual market in future, namely what sort of a population SMV-wise will a traditionalist society produce in future generations to come? I’m thinking 1950s US style traditionalism, perhaps even more so say, India and places where arranged marriages are commonplace or perhaps even the norm.
Y’see, in such a one-man one-pussy society that stresses the importance of marrying and ‘settling down’ with kids, people won’t compete so much; in other words they will invest less time in ‘playing around’ to eventually find someone of high enough quality to procreate with. People aren’t selecting for high-SMV but for long-term provider values and it ends up being a matter of being in the right place at the right time (and perhaps being of the right caste). This might explain why there are a lot of unattractive people in the middle-east and far more attractive people in Sweden (a place known for its liberal values), ignoring racial differences for a moment there.
Of course, it certainly doesn’t all boil down to these social values, but I’d certainly wager that it has an influence on the general attractiveness of a population. And if so, that does present sort an issue for people who are both pro-game and on the Right, if you see what I’m saying. Or does it? Let me know what you think.
If you listen to some neofolk, it works around a simple chord progression in a loop, but layers up with beautiful flourishes, and if not, still puts you in some kind of melancholic trance. It shares this characteristic with a lot of black metal, which is why many black metal fans like neofolk as well.
There’s little in the way of contemporary pop structure in this song (i.e. it doesn’t ‘move around’) yet I haven’t heard a more beautiful song in ages.
(Click on vid to see other vids including animation of more messed up maxillofacial surgery)
Now, I’m admittedly somewhat dorky looking. Like a less gormless Napoleon Dynamite, I guess. But having had successful orthodonic surgery in my teens, not having any congenital facial problems that would necessitate maxillofacial surgery and not had any nasty words in the playground aside from the teeth, I would far rather keep my face, work the hell out and improve my person than look like Buzz Lightyear or the surgeon from Escape from LA, not to mention the mild social stigma that comes with plastic surgery.
Furthermore, there’s the genetic element. As my father was adopted and has no knowledge of or willingness to research his ancestry, looking at myself in the mirror is a source of fascination and speculation. I wouldn’t want to take that away. Whatever my paternal roots are, I’m proud of them. I’m of a general Nordish composition, albeit not in the Dolph Lundgren way. I’m cool with that.
So there were these 4 quite attractive friends-of-friends sat at the table in the pub last night. There was some good banter going but they eventually disappeared to go to the godawful club night next door. One of my friends chastised us for not following them in as they were “blatantly up for it”, though he couldn’t be bothered to pay entry, so we left it at that.
These situations give rise to a dilemma. Does one risk the extra loss of cash being a beta orbiter (which it will be, however much you disguise it with game) for the small chance of success, or maintain dignity and go home alone? I think I need to find better environments for game that aren’t just bars and clubs, as they inevitably contain certain characters and you’ll have to put up with the hordes of typical Friday night berks. The thing with me is the sorts of girls I find most alluring in terms of their personality don’t tend to be club hounds as such. I think I probably just need a meaningful pursuit outside of work and my musical endeavours. The latter isn’t affording me much human interaction at this time as I am not currently performing, but that will eventually change and I am confident that I will win many new friends from the quality of the material I’ll release soon.
Unless I hone some serious game, it’s just a miserable, tedious grind until then.
One of many things that bucks the idea of inherent moral superiority of female is how they form their friendship circles. Something I think most people have subconsciously noticed is how a given circle of female friends appear to be of the same level of attractiveness. I notice this with alarming frequency and I have been often able to infer how hot a girl’s friends might be by how hot she is. Sometimes it’s even as specific as the 5-6′s hanging out with other 5-6′s. If a girl is so angelic and altruistic, why does she only consort with people of her level of attractiveness? Surely a good person is bosom-buddies with everyone, right? I’m sure there’s nothing rocket science about the motives behind it. I imagine it’s the same function as any other social pecking order and that women’s sexual market value is predominately based on her looks.
However, the same only partially true for men, whose sexual market value is based on a combination of factors or gestalt qualities, if you will. Even then, men will often happily traverse these invisible barriers where there is a higher goal involved. Seldom have I seen such behaviour by females, at least not above a certain threshold of attractiveness.
One thing I’ve found can be troublesome when talking to other Europeans, even when their English is fluent, is the differences in body language and interpretation of body language. There’s an Eastern European girl at work with whom I was having a conversation in the bar last Friday. Now, like many people, I have this thing where if I need to remember something during a conversation, I direct my gaze elsewhere so my mind can concentrate on recalling information rather than keeping someone’s gaze – not something I regarded as unusual or abnormal. Yet she leaned her head to try and regain eye contact and smiled condescendingly as if I was doing it out of shyness. This sort of behaviour is somewhat vexing as it suddenly does distract from thinking about the subject at hand and causes a self-consciousness that might not have been there in the first place.
Another trait I don’t think many foreigners have is the acknowledgement thing when people walk past eachother. When I walk past someone and they know me, even on a level of mild acquaintance, I share a smile, nod, raised eyebrows and maybe an “alright?” But I get the feeling some foreigners feel this is a bit forward and creepy perhaps.
Recent Comments